175. Who Owes You, "I'm Sorry"

Welcome to 100 Ways. This is your daily exploration of self and soul. I'm your host and fellow explorer, Laura Christine. Let's dive in and find our way home. No one thought to go back and listen to episode 1 74, Where we talked about how. We learn lessons the hard way. Always you don't. No, what hot means, and you don't know what getting burned means. Until who actually touched the thing that burns you. If it was fire, if it was a sparkler, if it was that pot on the stove, do you expect the fire? The sparkler. Or the pot on the stove to say, I'm sorry, after it burns, you. No. That's ridiculous. You're the one who touched it. You don't owe yourself an apology either. You were curious and you learned the lesson. My friend, Mike and I were walking in the woods on a trail in the mountains together. Our conversation was. Absolutely perfect for the podcast, but of course, We were hiking. So. I didn't have my mic and computer with me. To record a podcast. He talked about though, this concept of people needing to hear I'm sorry from other people. Or feeling disrespected. That feeling of being disrespected is anger. The need to hear. I'm sorry from someone else. Is still the need to externalize this. Anger. And to be validated. That it's okay. To be angry or to feel angry. You don't need validation to feel angry. You feel angry, you feel angry. That's it. But demanding somebody. Says, I'm sorry to you as like asking. The fire for an apology. After you learned that when you touch it at burns. I want to know your thoughts about this one. I want to deepen this conversation. Because we all, at some point in our lives, it feel like we deserve a, sorry. Very justified and very externalized. What are your thoughts? How do you move through? When you feel you deserve to be told, I'm sorry. Let's talk about apologizing. Tomorrow. Go to buy me a coffee.com/ 1 0, 0 ways to keep the show going. And until next time I'm sending all the love and then some more. We'll talk tomorrow. Thank you for exploring with me today. I would love to continue this conversation with you. We can do that at laurachristine. us. You'll find contact in the menu or you can go to laurachristine. us slash contact and you'll be taken right to it. Let's dive in a little deeper and see how fully we can flow with the duh.